40 years later, former sailor still searching for lost daughter in Japan

40 years later, former sailor still searching for lost daughter in Japan

By Seth Robson 

Stars and Stripes 

Published:  March 29, 2015

 

YOKOTA AIR BASE, Japan — It’s been 45 years since James Walker went to war in Vietnam, leaving behind his daughter and her mother in Japan.

The young sailor thought they’d be reunited once he got back from deployment on the aircraft carrier USS Oriskany. When the letters he wrote to his young family were returned marked “wrong address” Walker realized something was wrong. Almost four decades later, he’s still searching for them.

In 1967, when he arrived at Naval Air Facility Atsugi, Walker was 18 and fresh out of basic training. He started work as a mechanic with VR-21 — a squadron that flew Grumman C-1A transport planes delivering mail, supplies and personnel to the fleet.

The bright lights of nearby Tokyo were a world away from his hometown of Harrisburg, Ark., a close-knit farming community where his father worked as a carpenter. Back then, Atsugi was surrounded by fields, soon to be covered in houses, shops, factories and schools sprawling from the Japanese capital.

Tomie Hashimoto was wearing a kimono when Walker approached her in a Yokohama street. He was surprised when she answered him in English and gave him her phone number, and after a few dates, the pair fell in love. He visited her parents’ home near Yokohama several times and got on well with them despite the language barrier.

“They cooked for me,” he said. “You could tell they weren’t wealthy, but they seemed like hard-working people.”

It wasn’t long before the couple had moved into an apartment, about 1 1/2 miles from the Atsugi gate and were expecting a child.

Sailors needed permission from their command to marry, so Walker filed a request. The officer who received it told him that he’d need to re-enlist to get it approved, so he filed that paperwork, too.

“When I went back two weeks later he said it had been denied and there was nothing I could do,” he recalled. “At age 18 or 19, you don’t argue with an officer, so we were stuck.”

Soon afterward the couple went to a clinic near the base where their child was born. Walker said he helped the young mother breathe and push while a Japanese doctor supervised the birth. His daughter was born around midnight on New Year’s Eve 1967, although it’s possible that the birth is registered as Jan. 1, 1968, he said.

Walker named his daughter Kim, but said it’s possible that she was registered under another Japanese name in either Yamato in Kanagawa prefecture or Yokohama, he said.

Father and daughter formed a strong bond, he said.

“I remember teaching her about her eyes, nose, mouth and ears,” Walker said “I remember her little laugh, and she was always waiting on me when I got home.”

Life involved shopping trips and outings to the beach and an amusement park near Atsugi.

“We were just a typical family,” he recalled.

One day orders came for Walker, now a petty officer 3rd class, to report to VA-195 — an A-4 Skyhawk squadron in Lemoore, Calif. He reluctantly boarded a train, riding with his daughter in his lap, to Tachikawa Air Base for his flight.

“Her mother and I were both crying all the way,” he said.

In California, he was told not to unpack; he was headed to Vietnam on the Oriskany. As he waited for the ship to depart, he wrote letters to his family, who he hoped to bring to the U.S.

All were returned marked “wrong address.”

When the carrier pulled into Osaka part-way through the deployment, he took leave and rode the train back to Atsugi but found his apartment empty. The neighbors didn’t know where the family had gone, and Walker couldn’t find his way back to her parents’ house. He came back again after he returned from the war. Nothing.

Back in the states, he wrote letters to the Japanese Embassy and the Japanese prime minister’s office but didn’t get a reply.

After he left the Navy, he became a commercial pilot, flying out of Memphis, Tenn. He eventually married and, when his wife gave birth to a daughter in 1972, they named her Kim, after her Japanese half-sister.

But Walker, who now lives in Arkansas, said he never stopped looking for his lost family.

Now 68 and retired, he recently set up a Japanese Facebook page and posted a photo of himself with his Japanese family that has been shared more than 2,000 times.

Walker has the support of his wife and American daughter who, he said, is eager to meet her Japanese sister.

He obtained his military records in hopes that his marriage request, listing the names of his daughter’s Japanese grandparents, would be there. They weren’t; he thinks it was never filed by the officer he gave it to.

Jim Auckland, another former sailor who worked alongside Walker at Atsugi, said the Navy was eager for sailors to re-enlist during the Vietnam War.

“Every time I was promised something there was always the proviso that my enlistment would be extended,” he recalled of his days at Atsugi.

Auckland said he remembered his friend and others dating Japanese girls. It was common for officers to make parental decisions about young sailors and it wouldn’t have been unusual for a marriage request to be denied, he said.

“They tell you: If the Navy wanted you to have a family they would have issued you a family,’” he said.

Yoshihisa Sawai, who worked as a civilian mechanic at Atsugi in the 1980s, has been helping with the search. He recently spoke about the case on a Kanagawa radio station and hopes to persuade a television station to produce a show about it.

“I have been searching for two years but it’s difficult,” Sawai said. “He only has a little information.”

Eric Kalmus helps run the Japan Children’s Rights Network — a group that aims to reunite children in Japan with foreign parents, often servicemembers. Strict privacy laws make it hard to track people down in Japan if they don’t want to be found, he said.

“It is like looking for a needle in a haystack,” he said.

Kanagawa police say people can file missing person reports but that they won’t actively search unless a crime is suspected. Several non-profit organizations, such as Missing Person Search, can help track down people in Japan and put the seekers in touch with private detectives, officials say.

It may be a long shot, but Walker isn’t giving up. He said he still prays daily for the family he left behind.

“Tomie was a wonderful woman,” he said. “I pray that they are doing OK and, if I have any grandchildren, that they are safe and well.”

Walker said if he found out where his daughter was living, he would leave for Japan the next day.

“A team of wild horses couldn’t keep me back here,” he said.

Source:  “40 years later, former sailor still searching for lost daughter in Japan”, Stars and Stripes, 29 March 2015

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3 thoughts on “40 years later, former sailor still searching for lost daughter in Japan

  1. Hello Richard,

    That was good read this here. I have a similiar story to tell you.

    You certainly seem to have a great grasp of family related British and Internation Law. Readers and your firm are lucky to have you.

    I set up 2 Facebook pages, English and Japanese, for and in support of the veteran sailor James Walker on his desperate quest to reunite with his long lost daughter Kim Hashimoto. Since that article was written it has recieved approx 80,000 shares, likes, comments, 49,000 alone from a military group NRRF.

    With the challenge James Walker faces, it seems clear that signposting is exactly what he and our supporters need. It will reduce time, energy and costs, and, most important, relieve a lot of stress for quite a few people. I’m checking as to what contribution you could make to James Facebook page in terms of direction and leads to follow. Additionally we are exploring a possibility that Kim Hashimot was adopted and/or fostered.

    ****#UPDATE****
    Please Find Kim Hashimoto, Age 47, Born 12/31/1967 midnight or 01/01/1968, Atsugi, Kanagawa, Japan’ – via James Walker​, father to long lost daughter
    神奈川県厚木市で、1967年12月31日、または1968年1月1日に生まれた、ハシモト・キムさん(47歳)を探しています。

    #NAME, **Kim Hashimoto, (**Kim — Ami, Kimi,, Kimie, Kimiho, Kimika, Kimiko, Kimiyo, Kimu) #hapa #japaneseamerican

    #BIRTH REGISTRATION: Atsugi – Ebina or Ayase, Yamato, Yokohama, Kanagawa Prefecture

    #MISSING: due to will / intention of mother / other – disappearance “jou=hatsu” from family apartment near Hon-Atsugi Station 本厚木 ” Sagami ” 「さがみ」1969/70 onwards

    #NOTE: Possibly adopted or fostered after age 2 / 1970
    _________________________________________________________

    #MOTHER: **Tomie Hashimoto (**Tomie — Tomi, Tomea; Tomee; Tommea; Tommeee; Tommey; Tommi; Tommie; Tommy; Tomy – Tomiko – Tomika; Tomikah; Tomyko) #japanese

    #AGE: 68 (- /+ 2 years)

    #BORN: Kanagawa, possibly Yokohama or near

    #MARRIAGE: never married to the father James Walke, US Navy deny marriage requests and renegade on filing marriage applications

    #LAST KNOWN LOCATION: family apartment near Hon-Atsugi Station 本厚木 ” Sagami ” 「さがみ」1968 to 1969/70

    #MISSINGPERSON: due to will / intention of self – running away from home / absondence “shissou” / disappearance “jou=hatsu” 1970 – #REASON UNKNOWN
    _________________________________________________________

    #FATHER: James Walker

    #AGED: 68, BORN: Arkansas, USA

    #WORK: NAF Atsugi, Kanagawa 1967 to 1969/70

    #HOME: family apartment near Hon-Atsugi Station 本厚木 ” Sagami ” 「さがみ」1968 to 1969/70. At present Arkansas, USA
    _________________________________________________________

    #GRANDPARENTS: Hashimoto family name

    #RESIDENCE: before and after 1968, countryside of Yokohama, Kanagawa, or close by

    (End)

    FB pages are as follows though you will have to ‘Like’ in order to give your desperately needed and welcomed support: ‘Find Kim Hashimoto’ and/or the Japanese version ‘神奈川県厚木市で、1967年12月31日、または1968年1月1日に生まれた、ハシモト・キムさん(47歳)を探しています。’

    Once again, it was good reading this article here. We desperately need ideas about which direction to be heading.

    Yours Respectfully,

    Dean

    James Walker’s Admin, Friend, Supporter

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